Deyemi Okanlawon Opens Up About Relying on His Wife During Difficult Times

Nollywood actor Deyemi Okanlawon has shared how he copes with emotional pressure, revealing that his wife is the person he turns to whenever life becomes overwhelming.

Speaking in an interview with Dear Ife, the actor explained that although his wife is his greatest source of comfort, he tries not to burden her too often because she already manages her own work while taking care of their home and family.

According to Okanlawon, there are moments when the emotional weight becomes too much, and he does not hesitate to wake her in the middle of the night for support.

“When the thing is just too hard, there’s my wife. She’s not the first because she’s dealing with her own business and raising the family. But when it’s hitting me too hard, I’ll wake her in the middle of the night and tell her to help me,” he said.

The actor also stressed that he does not rely solely on his wife for emotional support. He revealed that he has built a strong support system that includes a therapist, mentors, and trusted friends whom he can speak with whenever he needs guidance or encouragement.

Okanlawon encouraged men not to keep all their struggles to themselves, warning that carrying emotional burdens alone can become overwhelming.

He added that while he sees it as his responsibility to protect the people around him, he also understands the importance of seeking healing and support when necessary.

“My job is to protect the people around me. If gbege happens here now, the chances are I’m going to step in front. It’s what needs to happen. There’s no excuse. You also have to be aware enough to find healing,” he said.