‘Late Mr Ibu Did Not Do Well At All’ – Rita Edochie Reacts to Family Property Dispute

Nollywood actress Rita Edochie has weighed in on the ongoing property dispute involving the family of late actor John Okafor, saying the situation reflects the challenges associated with polygamous family structures.

The dispute has involved Mr Ibu’s widow, Stella Maris Okafor, and some of the late actor’s children over the sale of his properties.

Reacting in a post on Instagram, Rita Edochie argued that the ongoing disagreements highlight the long-term consequences of polygamy, insisting that it often creates division and conflict within families.

She wrote:

“I do not want to be numbered… Here is the main reason polygamy has done more harm than good, not just in Nigeria but in Africa as a whole. We must call a spade a spade. The late Mr Ibu did not do well at all!!!! No matter how we try to sugarcoat polygamy or paint it as a cultural success story, it still does not change the fact that it has been one of the greatest marital errors that has jeopardised the peace, unity and harmony of countless families.”

She continued:

“Every single day, I keep seeing more reasons to detest and despise polygamy. It is not something I would ever wish on my worst enemy. Time and again, life keeps presenting fresh evidence that where polygamy exists, peace is constantly under threat, while division patiently waits for its opportunity.

“Polygamy has been defended for generations, yet the painful outcomes continue to repeat themselves—rivalry, jealousy, unhealthy competition, bitterness, divided loyalties, inheritance disputes and prolonged family conflicts have become familiar stories in polygamous homes. The painful aspect of it comes when the proud polygamist is gone to the other side.”

Referring to the situation surrounding Mr Ibu’s family, Rita Edochie said the public disagreements over property should serve as a lesson to others.

“The situation currently playing out in Mr Ibu’s family has become another painful reminder of how difficult such family structure can become. The public disagreements among family members over properties and other issues are heartbreaking to watch. While every family has its own unique circumstance, this serves as a serious warning to those who are currently in polygamous homes or are planning to build one tomorrow.”